On the contrary, a martial art should be used as a vehicle to get from one place to another. Not to be disgarded as if you've reach some destination. Instead, an art gives the journey clarity and clarity is everything.
Too many traditional martial arts teachers demand respect for what they give with their words. But people should question this to see if what they have to give is even worth respect. Respect in martial arts is demanded through ability. Nothing more. Nothing less. Teachers must be continued examples of ability for their students. If a student comes to see their teacher as not having undeniable ability, they will not respect them. And rightly so. Those with undeniable ability get respect. Therefore a teacher must constantly seek to improve themself. This is the best gift they can ever give their students.
What's so great about a healthy student/teacher relationship is its harmony. A student should constantly seek more from their self. This is the best gift they can give their teacher as the best sign of a teacher is their student's ability.
Orange County Wing Chun - OC's Wing Chun source
